What Do You Need to Pack For 3 Weeks in India

As soon as the plane ticket was booked for India, the worries about what clothing to pack that would last 3 weeks, but not overload us, began.  Everything we had read warned about checking bags on international flights to India due to the high number of bags that go lost or stolen. We also would be taking many domestic flights within India and didn't want to pay extra for baggage, so our plan was to only take one carry-on and small purse/bag each.

After reading blog after blog, mostly written by college age hipsters, we decided backpacks were the way to go.  I have had my Deuter backpack for a few years and have hiked the Appalachian Trail with it strapped to my back many times. It has a lot of room, enough pockets to cram lots of things in, is compatible for a hydration system, is less than 4 lbs when empty and has a pretty flower to make me feel just a little bit girly when I'm on hikes with mostly burly men.  So I knew it would be perfect for this trip.

But what clothing should we pack? We again, searched through the hipster blogs to see what was appropriate. Since we would be in many different parts of India with different expectations and what was considered appropriate for women to wear, we wanted to take a little bit of everything, but still be able to fit it all in the backpacks. 

In the more traditional areas and to visit temples we would need long skirts and scarves. I found a great deal on reversible wrap skirts- 5 for less than $30, so couldn't pass that deal up! That is basically 10 skirts, at $3 each! 

 

Scarves were also an easy buy at less than a dollar each! Who can pass that up?

 Since we were traveling in the warmer months, we figured t-shirts would be all that were needed, and since I was going cheap, I just ordered a couple basic Hanes t-shirts that matched the skirts. 

Another necessity was one pair of jeans and some comfortable pants. For me, comfortable means yoga pants, so two pairs of yoga pants and a pair of jeans got rolled up and placed in the bag.

One thing to be aware of when visiting India, is that you will need to be able to slip your shoes on and off when visiting any temples or religious sites. This was a big subject of many messages between Jen and I. We didn't want to fill our bags with heavy shoes, but also wanted to make sure we had what we would need for walking, slipping on and off and taking showers or bucket baths on dirty floors. We probably brought too many shoes, at least I know I did. I would have been fine just packing the cute Crocs I found on Amazon. Yes, cute ones actually exist.  They slip off and on easily, are waterproof, cover toes from all the dirty roads, are extremely comfortable and look cute with skirts or pants. 

Of course we couldn't forget our undergarments and as a woman in my forties, with a forty something body type, I knew walking around in skirts could possibly cause a lot of discomfort and chafing on the inner thighs, but I also didn't want to wear pants underneath the skirts because of the heat. Now as a mom of three boys, I have purchased many a different style of underwear for them over the years and knew boxer briefs would be the perfect solution to my conundrum; long enough to cover rubbing thighs and yet would allow me to stay cool under all the layers of silk. I searched and searched for women's boxer brief shorts and found some at Target!  Who knew they would be so hard to find, but I'm glad I did!

We packed and repacked, watched videos on how to fit everything in one bag and measured once, twice and three times to make sure the bag would fit carry-on measurements. We were good to go!

One point I would like to make to any other non-college age, not fit women taking this trip;  After all of the planning, the backpacks were a little too heavy and bulky to be carrying on long stretches of time at airports and taking on and off to go through all the numerous check points. We ended up buying luggage carts with wheels and hooking the backpacks up so we could wheel them around. It made life a whole lot easier! If we made the trip again I would probably use a small wheeled carry-on suitcase. Although I'm not sure I could fit everything in like I did in the backpack...hmmmmm.....

Of course clothing wasn't the only things we packed. We took other necessities as well, such as a water purifier, toilet paper, monthly supplies, medicines and so forth and I will write another post on those items at a later date, because these are definitely things you do not want to forget! Especially the toilet paper!!!!


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Roadtripping At It's Finest

When I plan a road trip, I like to make it as silly as possible to keep it entertaining for the other passengers in the vehicle. I'll plan stops at supposed vampire or witch grave sites, silly vintage statues or art works, or landmarks that you've always heard about, but have never seen.  To me, these are what make a road trip worth taking and makes lasting memories to talk and laugh about for decades.

 A few years ago, while my mother was battling lung cancer, my sisters and I decided we needed a Mother/ Daughter Road Trip to make some lasting memories. We hadn't done anything like this for decades, since we all are married, have children and moved all over the country.  Of course, I took on the task of planning the trip! I used two great websites and apps called https://roadtrippers.com/ as well as http://www.roadsideamerica.com/ . Our plan was to go to Cape Cod to take my mother on a real clambake, but we decided to see a lot more while on the road.


On Sept.2, 2013, we began our trip to New England by trying for a photo op at The Sloppy Giant with Ill Clad Clothing in Phoenxiville, Pa. We couldn't find it. However, we did find Jode Rd and a random globe for the first pictures of the week.






Our second roadside photo op was at the Giant Steel Hockey Player in Newark, NJ. Mom and Jami were too afraid of the "ghetto" to get out of the car, but that wasn't going to stop Jen and I. I mean we had driven all this way just to take a picture with it....  http://www.roadsideamerica.com/story/23432

After a few attempts at seeing Jeffrey's Hook Lighthouse, otherwise known as The Little Red Lighthouse, http://www.nycgovparks.org/parks/fortwashingtonpark/monuments/810

taking a bathroom break for Jami(again in the ghetto) we decided to leave NYC and find something to eat.


We chose the old road trip standard, Cracker Barrel, where we were joined by the Mileys and the Short Bus Mileys. (Note- this was right after her tongue exposed VMA award performance)

Midnight Mary in New Haven, Ct, was our next stop. Mary Hart was a woman who was buried alive and thought to haunt the cemetery at midnight. We left her a penny, took some pictures and went on our way. http://www.damnedct.com/midnight-mary/









While in New Haven, Ct, we decided to crash a wedding at Lighthouse Park. We took some silly photos and searched for seashells. (photo to the right- Get it? I'm the little mermaid?!)





New Haven was also the home of the rather scary, gross Econo Lodge Motel where we spent our first night, I would not recommend it. The next morning, we got up early and headed out to visit Gillette Castle http://www.friendsofgillettecastle.org/which is gorgeous. The castle was the home of the original Sherlock Holmes and was quite eccentric which makes the tour very entertaining. We arrived too early, so stopped for some chai and coffee at Two Wrasslin Cats https://www.facebook.com/TwoWrasslinCats and toured Jami's new favorite town, East Haddam, Ct

Once we arrived at Gillette Castle, Jami was a gracious host at her estate, inviting us in, doing some gardening and taking photos of forbidden closets.






After a brief stop at a Life Size T- Rex in Oakdale, Ct, we stopped at the Mohegan Sun Casino to spend some money.







Mystic, Ct was the next stop on our trip. We, first, stopped by Ford's Lobsters, a Mystic Pizza Filming location, for some lobster rolls and a lobster stuffed avocado in the pouring rain.

After a drive by photo of the Stonington Lighthouse in Stonington, RI, we stopped by a Vampires Gravesite. Mercy Brown was thought to be a vampire, so was exhumed and her heart was made into a drink for her brother to drink to keep him from dying of the TB plague that was happening in Exeter, Ri in 1888. http://strangene.com/cemeteries/vampire.htm


The Fighting Seabee Statue in North Kingston was next on the photo agenda, as was the Warwick Neck Lighthouse and an attempt at seeing the Conimicut Lighthouse.

The Comfort Inn in Warwick, RI, was the best hotel on the trip. It was clean and had a bar downstairs, where Jami and Jen, in their infinite wisdom kept the drinks coming. Not only did mother not appreciate it, apparently neither did Jodi's histamines.
The next morning we drove by TAPS(ghosthunters) for a photo.





The next morning, we intended to take a tour of the Lizzie Borden Bed and Breakfast, but only did a quick drive by of the front. We, then, headed to Battleship
Cove to look at the water "and wait for our long lost loves to come home"







Finally to the "tip of the Cape"!
We found some stones lying on the beach and enjoyed a meal before going to bed for the evening in rooms that smelled of cat pee and had splattered blood on the curtains. Ahhh the memories! Just a tip- You get what you pay for!


 The next day was a rather gloomy day in February, but we were heading to Plimoth Plantation anyway! http://www.plimoth.org/  Luckily, we had the whole place to ourselves, so we could act as goofy and obnoxious as we wanted. We had some great conversations with some natives and also got to meet our  11th great grandfathers. Ok, well, actors who portrayed them! As a huge genealogy buff, I've traced us to 7 of the original settlers in Plimoth. We had a fun time talking family with the actors who never broke character, even when we brought up things that would happen to them in the future.

 Next we went to see  Plimoth Rock which at one time had been quite larger, but people kept chipping parts away for souvenirs, so now it is enclosed as well as take a picture of Governor Bradford's statue, which has a crazy resemblance to our father.




Last on the agenda, was touring the Mayflower, where again as the only people on, we were able to take some funny pictures and annoy the actor.

Finally to our Clambake, the reason we chose New England! It was a rather cool, gloomy evening and mom was not feeling too well, but it still was an awesome experience.  And if you ever decide to go, I would not recommend trying to save money by choosing the vegetarian option.! http://bostonsbestcruises.com/clambake-at-sunset












We visited a few more places before heading back to Pennsylvania; The Salem Witch Museum  http://www.salemwitchmuseum.com/   and the House of the Seven Gables http://www.7gables.org/. Both were interesting tours.







Overall, our trip to Cape Cod, Boston and Salem was an awesome Mother/Daughter Road Trip with lots of laughter until tears streamed down our faces and we were doubled over in pain.  We will always have lots of memories of our awful hotels, sneaky facebook pictures of each other and of trying to push the darn wheelchair.

Remember your road trip is only as fun as you make it!

Until the next one....

How NOT to look like a train wreck in your passport photo

Your passport photo will follow you around the world for 10 years.  Consider carefully what kind of day you are having before you get that picture taken.  It easy for everything to become just one more item to check off on the travel planning to-do list and then you show up for your photo without any makeup, hair barely brushed (like a normal day at my house) and your comfy but ratty sweater that looks like the cat was chewing on the collar.  10 years.  That's a long time to be showing immigration staff around the world your less than best face.

The U.S. Passport and International Travel office at the Department of State makes the application process super easy.  You can fill out your paperwork online and then print to submit.  You can also find a list of places for taking your official passport photo and tips for the perfect picture (according to the government). I went to our local post office.

It's imperative you look in the mirror at least once that day.  That's what I would tell myself now.  Put on some lotion and do something about those dark circles under your eyes.  Maybe some lip gloss and frizz tamer in your hair for good measure.  If you wear glasses you will need to remove them for the photo, so keep that in mind. 

It's too late for me, but not for you.  Do yourself a favor and treat the passport photo like the glamour shots from the 1980's.  First impressions at immigration and customs count!

Only Rich People Take Vacations

So, it's been a while since you've take a vacation or you've never traveled very far from home before and you have NO IDEA where to start? Listen, we have been there. 

I went on my first vacation the last week of summer before sixth grade. We borrowed our neighbors small pickup truck, put a carpet in the back, put the cap on and along with my parents and two sisters, drove to Niagara Falls and through the New England States, very quickly, might I add.  Two of us would drive hours on end laying down to fit in the bed of the truck (This was in the eighties when driving in the back of a pickup truck was perfectly acceptable) while the lucky one for the day would get to ride between my parents in the front.  We had no reservations. We stopped at any $30 or so a night motel that had vacancy. Sometimes we would all sleep in the King Size Bed, my mother would end up in the bathtub sleeping on those nights, but other nights we would share two queens.  Listen, it wasn't glamorous, but riding Maid of the Mist under the Falls and touring Plimoth Plantation and the Mayflower made it all worth the fighting and bickering for space in our cramped quarters. 









We didn't take another vacation until seven years later when my sister graduated from bootcamp.  That's because only rich people could take vacations, or so I thought.  

Maybe it was difficult to take the trip of your dreams ten or fifteen years ago without bundles of cash, but today with all of the internet planning tools and deals, you can travel for the cost of a couple of outfits at the mall. It would be more like 10 or more outfits for myself because I'm a cheap skate and a consignment shopper at my very core, but for normal people, a couple of outfits from the mall.

The first thing you need to do is decide where you want to go. Or don't, that's even better. If you are willing to go anywhere if the deal is right, you have a better chance of finding something exciting and within your budget. 

Then you need to start scouring the internet. There are so many travel blogs, sites and apps devoted to travel deals and you need to find as many as you can and sign up for notifications. Liking the facebook pages of each is extremely helpful as they often post a new travel deal everyday.

For me, the next step is to figure out when the deals I find fit into my schedule and financial planning. Hey, I dont have a huge lump sum at one time to pay for a vacation, so I piecemeal it together so by the time the trip comes along, it's paid off and I'm free to enjoy the sites.  If you find a great flight price, book that first, if its a great hotel or rental price, book that. The rest will fall into place. Just make sure you give yourself enough time to raise the funds and find the next part you need.

Here are some of the travel sites you should check out-

http://thepointsguy.com/
http://www.travelandleisure.com/
https://besttraveldeals.net/

And don't forget cruiselines- 
https://www.royalcaribbean.com/
https://www.ncl.com/
https://www.carnival.com/

And my favorite inexpensive airlines-
https://www.norwegian.com
https://wowair.us/
http://www.jetblue.com/

AND don't forget Google Flights, one of the best new travel tools available!
https://www.google.com/flights/